I know several marriages in which the husbands don't have or want employment, and the working wife resents bearing the financial load. Even if she does not work for money, she wishes he was a contributor instead of a parasite.
It's because if the husband don't work they are together 24/7 and end up fussing and fighting
I can't work. But, I care for Jane, which allows her to.
If she gave it up, she'd die of boredom, I'm certain.
I can't work out how I ever found the time to go to work!