Have you heard about it? A web site for spouses who wish to have an affair has been hacked, and the hacker claimed to have names, addresses, credit
card information, and sexual preferences of members, whom he (or they) threatened to disclose if the site continued to operate.
If a person wishes to commit adultery, and enlists an internet enterprise that promotes having an affair, is it really a surprise to them when things
turn out badly?
Is it really a surprise to anyone when adultery turns out badly--whether the internet is involved, or not?
How about this: "Do not commit adultery." Live in faithfulness to your spouse. It isn't an absolute guarantee that your reputation won't be
tarnished, since anyone might lie about you, if they wish--but, it's a lot better than being exposed as a person who has done wrong against their
marriage and broken their vows.